Anonymous said:

I just came across your blog and viola you have been here for 10 years now?!?!?

I just needed a lil help

Like how can one not be visibly anxious?

In social situations, i always get too sweaty and shaky and cold and it shows and it is way too awkward and the worst part, people can see that and they think you are under confident

I always try to have a full meal, extra clothes like a jacket or something before i expose myself to social situations, but I'd like to take more advice

Thankyou

All you can do is try to be your best confident self and push through it. I will say though, that no one is paying attention to you as much as you think they are. (I mean that in a nice way of course!) Most people probably don’t even notice how shy and awkward you feel because everyone is usually too concerned with themselves and what’s going on with their own lives instead. Just try to enjoy yourself in social situations instead of focusing so much on how you appear to others. I promise no one notices as much as we think they do. ❤️